My family is just crumbling. i hate my dad, hes a horrible person, and my sister hates him too. the other day, he said he won't pay a cent for her college. he's turning my little brother against us all. we've tried to kick him out, and he tells us that he isn't leaving, that we should all leave. My mom wants a divorce, but she doesn't think we could make it on our own. There will be four of us and my sister is going to college next year and money is already tight. without him, we'd be broke. my mom just sits around crying because she doesn't know what to do. my sister refused to eat for a week because she was so afraid of my dad that she lost 10 pounds, keep in mind we are all VERY skinny. i ran away in november because my dad was attacking me for every little thing i did. he'd ask me and my sister a question and we'd both say yeah, and he would scream at me saying it was a disrespect to say yeah, not yes or yes sir. he doesn't deserve that respect in the first place and he only flipped out on me. he tells all of us we will lose what we love the most if they get divorced. my mom knows the house would be so much better, so much healthier without him, but she doesn't have the money to be on her own. everytime divorce comes up, my dad says he's getting my little 5 year old brother, but he could care less about me and my sister. he said he'd rather us be living on the streets starving than live with him. oh yeah, and he's on drugs. antidepressants, sleeping pills, and pot. he also smokes cigarrettes. what a great dad. sorry for going on and on about this, but its just so hard to handle and my friends could really care less.