1. gaited horse

    gaited horse Merry Christmas!

    Aug 14, 2008
    Fernley, NV
    I never thought this would happen to me. If I had it my way it would'nt of happend.

    I might as well say it










    I feel for my best friend but she is'nt ready/doesn't want to date me becasue she is worried about our friendship.
    Oh well I guess I'll just have to wait it out or hope soemthing happens.

    I wish I could change the way I felt for her but I just can't.
    The way i feel for her has made me start written songs maybe some good will come out of all this hurt and pain.

    Thanks for reading my weak post. Sorry about this but I just needed to say it somewhere.
     
    Last edited: Aug 30, 2011
  2. Balefire

    Balefire Chillin' With My Peeps

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    Hang in it, hope everything will work out for you soon.
     
  3. Fierlin1182

    Fierlin1182 powered-flight

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    I guess a lot of people worry about friendships and dating... it's pretty normal. Hang in there [​IMG] The songs are a good thing, sometimes I write to vent as well!
     
  4. SarahBeth9394

    SarahBeth9394 Chillin' With My Peeps

    Aug 23, 2008
    Trust me there will be another. My daughter liked the same guy all through high school. There were times their mutual friends would tell her he really likes you so that will change. There were times he said that would change soon. But he never did. They hung out alot throughout the 4 years and she even dated another guy for a little while but I guarantee you she would have ditched him for her friend. So she met a guy that lived in the city halfway through her senior year and fell for him sometime just before she graduated. Now she lives with him and is in love and is happy. He wouldn't have been my choice but he is good to her and that's what counts. Funny thing tho she never really mentioned her new love to her friend before she moved out (he was a class ahead of her so they didn't see each other every day). But yes there will be another and you'll love her and she will love you.
     
  5. lockedhearts

    lockedhearts It's All About Chicken Math

    Apr 29, 2007
    Georgia
    On the other hand,, My Husband is my best friend, was my first love. We have been friends for over 30 years and after splitting up for 20 years, we got back together and it was as if we were never apart. There is nothing wrong with being friends with someone and having a deeper relationship.
     
  6. sumi

    sumi Égalité Staff Member

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    I met this great guy, we became friends, slowly, over time. We became more than friends eventually and now we're married.
    Give it time, you never know...
     
  7. TinyChickenLady

    TinyChickenLady Chillin' With My Peeps

    I met my boyfriend and we instantly became best friends. We hung out all the time and shared a lot of common interests which is how we became best friends. Then over time, we started developing feelings for each other. We talked about it a lot. We discussed all possible situations such as issues with exes, the fact that he has kids, etc. and talked about whether we wanted to risk our friendship for a relationship or not. We've been together now for over a year and have discussed expanding our family and buying a house and marriage.
    So just give her time. If she's smart, she'll realize a relationship is built on a great friendship and she'll take the plunge.
     
  8. redhen

    redhen Kiss My Grits... Premium Member

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    Awww, Buddy.. [​IMG]
    The right girl IS out there for you.. believe me. (cause you know i'm always right..[​IMG]..)
    Maybe its her (later on down the road)...or maybe its another special girl. But you will find her someday... [​IMG]

    *ETA: Just think how i feel... chasing Mike Rowe all these years and NOTHING... [​IMG] * ([​IMG] )
     
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  9. SarahFair

    SarahFair Chillin' With My Peeps

    Sep 23, 2008
    Monroe, Ga
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    Dont push her. Give her time.
    ..maybe the right someone will come along.
     
  10. gaited horse

    gaited horse Merry Christmas!

    Aug 14, 2008
    Fernley, NV
    Thanks everyone for listening.
     

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