Yes, we are each other's instigators. We've gotten into a bit of trouble over the years - mostly with our husbands. Like the time she was tired of the deer head hanging in her basement so she (with my help) hung it in his shop door. Not bad, except that he had to climb a ladder to get into his shop a the time, so when he got to the top of the ladder and opened the door, there was a deer head hanging there! (No, he didn't fall off the ladder, but he may have had to go in and change.)You know, I was wondering why she would be laughing alone. I would laugh alone, but I wondered if maybe she had an instigator, and she did: you!!!