Ok...so what about cayugas? They are gorgeous ducks.Also, My mallards will do all their little duckie things with me right there next to them so I don't think they are TOO scared.They clean themselves...watch me fill the food dish,waterer,etc. and once I give them fresh water....they could care less if I'm there or not!It's obsession time then! Also,they will take treats from human hands....so hopefully they'll be ok.I don't try to pick them up constantly but when I need to I want to be able to.They get scared but never have tried to bite so far.