HI ALL!
Thanks for the well wishes and ideas. I'll try to look into help or something this week. Maybe getting the right equipment would help. I don't have allot of strength and being 5' nothing means I can't get allot of leverage in the direction I need. I wish his siblings were able to help more but 2 have young families and small homes. Jon is trying to find his own path and may never settle down. They all think Neil should go elsewhere. They don't have the patience to deal with the mood swings, memory loss, stubbornness, dementia, etc. I will admit I've gotten so mad at him (when he yells at me) that I've just slammed my door and cried. But I still don't think merits shoving him off on someone else.
Sorry for rambling, I just question my decisions and abilities when he has has a bout. He had an "accident" tonight because he couldn't get to the bathroom. He's had them before and I could deal with it. But tonight it was so hard with trying to move him and clean him, then change the bed. It wore me out bad. DH will support (at least for now) what I think is right, but yesterday he was trying to help when Neil fell by the bathroom door and was getting frustrated. He was corpsmen so knows how to handle and move a patient, but he was having a hard time. I don't know, I just don't know.
Well, thanks for the whine, pass the wine and we move on!
Twizz....
Steiggy... Hope your fine!
cuties... cool on the new Jeep!
Bl4... hope you get a chance to see that farm... let us know how it is!
CC... That's trouble with roosters.... they're so pretty you don't want to do them in!! I have some real beauties this year too! Looks like Prettyboy sired at least 3 and 2 are so red they must be George's. I have 2 BLRW roos from Delish that I don't need now that the hen died. I also have a few other pretty boys that have to meet their end.
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Well, must sleep, no word from Jon this weekend. Night All!