Wisconsin "Cheeseheads"

[babylady4]

Jim, are you still using that TV computer thing?

I would have no idea how to explain it to you if you are since I do not know how if works......

 

[Buck Creek Chickens]

Jim, if you are on a computer and have your pic's downloaded on it. look up above, where it says, index userlist rules .... till you see Uploads, click on it, you will see File: below it a blanck space and a button next to it, Browse, click, find you pictures, you should be able to keep going, if you get that far and still have trouble let one of us know and someone should be able to help

 

[Raiquee]

UGH!!!

DH's dad pisses me off so darn bad! I can NEVER say anything to him in conversation without him "telling me how it is" and ARGUING WITH ME! Like this:

(Now mind you, his parents piss me off super bad, so I stay in my room A LOT with them around, to avoid arguing. He knocked on my door, opened it and had this convo with me. I can't even get away from him in my own ROOM!)

Inlaw: Where is Ed?
Me: Working
Inlaw: Still?!
Me: Yeah.
Inlaw: When is he done?
Me: Hes not sure, hes going to try leaving at 8.
Inlaw: Well I think thats enough working for him today
Me: Yeah
Inlaw: But its good money
Me: Yeah, hopefully we will see it sooner than the last one <~ (This was somehow, the instigating statement)
Inlaw: Well, he should have stood by the truck and refused to work until he got a paycheck
Me: Well, those people (The ones who write the check) aren't out on the job...they were curled up in bed last night.
Inlaw: Well that would get them out of bed real quick!
Me: They have other guys they could have had covered, I'm just glad hes getting work (The guys who could have covered was all the salt truck drivers, seeing as they weren't salting)
Inlaw: Yeah right! Not during this snowstorm! And they prolly had all those people working!
Me: (Getting irritated) Making $20 an hour is a lot of money, I'm sure they could have found someone. So many people are unemployed...
Inlaw: Yeah but no ones going out in a blizzard!!!
Me: (Just staying silent, trying to end the conversation) ....
Inlaw: At least he is making good money, $600 bucks in a night!
Me: (Biting my tongue, trying to not correct him and say it was only 340 cause he can't do math) Yeah.


This is how it is...ALL THE TIME. I can never say anything in my house, and be right about it. Dh's dad is such a downser too, like saying we were "So lucky the furnace didn't break down last night and I didn't have to figure it out at 6 in the morning" I said "Well, we got wood if worst case senario" and he goes "Well NOT if the power goes out, then the blower won't work!" and I want to go really badly "It doesn't take electricity to burn wood, all you have to do is sit in front of the fireplace." UGH!!! Who says that anyways? Like...yeah I am glad the power didn't go out but to say it like a threat? WTH? I try SOOOO hard not to get into arguments with people as I am highly emotional/angry/upsetted easily and I know this. But DH's dad will wait until I get up to go out of the safety of my room to eat something and he HAS to say something. He runs out of his room to come and hassle me. He did the same earlier to me about "plowing" of the driveway. I said plow and he went off on a tangant saying the plow on the lawnmower won't work, he'll drive right into a snow drift and its not going to move that heavy of snow. I DON'T CARE IT'S NOT MY PROBLEM ITS THE ROOM MATES. He has to plow/shovel/lick the darn snow up it's part of his rent!! And, to top it off, room mate totally used the plow.

I just want them OUT OF MY HOUSE!!!!!!!!! We have freaking 6-7 people in the house at one time, and its 3-4 people (and a stupid cat) too many! *rips hair out* DH's mom is fine, she usually keeps to herself...but his dad and the darn cat I am DONE WITH. Hes bored and retired and he needs to find a new hobby than making me mad! He usually does it to my poor DH, I don't know how he has dealt with it for 25 years.

Sorry guys

I am crying and typing this. I haven't left my room ALL day because I am trying to escape FIL. I am emotionally spent. I can't vent anywhere else cause they are FB friends with me. I will vent to DH tonight, but feel terrible about it cause hes been working for 17 hours now.

 

[Susie"J"]

Oh Raiquee,

Trapped in your own home. You can always vent here. How long has this living arrangement been in effect ? You need to snuggle with you DH when he gets home and forget all the others for awhile.

Got the same email about the Packers, couldn't agree more

had a good laugh.

BCC they look a lot like our Jungle Chickens. I will take a pic soon of them and figure out how to post it. Very pretty roo.

I am so tired of this snow, wishin for Spring and I think our groundhog says mooooooore winter

Have a good night all, Susie

 

[Raiquee]

Susie) Yes, I am totally trapped in my own home. I'm just sick of him trying to argue with me all. the. time. Can't we just have a normal conversation? It's AMAZING what he will try pulling out of his bum to try and make himself "right" over me, even though I was never trying to "prove" him wrong! They moved back in with us in November, and are staying until...well March is what hubby told me but its sounding later like April. They moved all their stuff in, took over a good majority of the house, and I feel trapped. They act like it's their home. I spent HOURS steam-cleaning the carpet a few weeks ago, which is hard on my back and me and DH have been really good about taking off our snowy shoes. FIL? No. He walks through the snow, no more than steps on the rugs and walks RIGHT into the living room. I point it out to him, to have him walk the LONG way out of the living room, make a pass through the kitchen, and come back in on the carpeting!

They also feed their stupid cat tuna on my NICE plates and leave them all over the kitchen! There is 3 plates with dried crusty tuna on it that I REFUSE to pick up. I don't care if 15 more show up on the floor, i'm not cleaning up after their dang cat anymore!!

I told hubby I don't want them back with us next winter, that they need to find a condo to rent or stay at one of the other siblings houses. I don't mind if they want to stay with us for like a week over the holidays, but thats it. I can't deal with this many people in my home, at least people that aren't respectful of my home. If I was a house guest somewhere, I wouldn't even ASK if I had to take my shoes off if they were covered in snow. I'd take them off! Rather than trot around someones house in them!

I talked (cried) to DH about it and he got super mad at his dad. He says "Theres no reason he should be picking fights with you, he should only do that to me!" So, hes going to talk to him. I told him I was sorry, and I was probably blowing it out of proportion because I was preggo but man I've had enough! I think its a huge invasion of space problem, and the trying to pick a fight is just fraying my last nerve.

SIGH.

 

[Amyable]

Raiquee

This too shall pass. Your house, your rules. If FIL can't abide, they need to find a new place now. Such disrespect.

 

[bigzio]

Evening All...Yep nice lookin ganoi BCC! Thanks for sharing the pics.

Good to hear from you fm. Thats alot of eggs. How many birds do have at the moment? I took 2 dozen over to the neighbor today with a jar of wild grape jelly. I hunt on his land, so I always keep him supplied with eggs.

I can't post pics till I buy a new puter....this old 98 doesn't have any memory left. Good Luck Jim, I know you have a ton of picks to share when you get it figured out.

Hoping for the best Raiq...gotta be tuff.

Mom's off to Pa in the morning...leaving appleton, then to Ohio, then to Pa. I hope she has a safe flight.

Be Safe...... ~ bigzio

 

[Dr HaHa]

Good Frosty Morning Everyone! -9 here. My cousins husband sent his rendition of the chicken for the shirts. Have to figure out how to get it from an E mail to the forum for all of you to say what you think. If we decide to use it his asking price is a twelver of Point and XL T shirt. Have you seen the cockateel from Antigo? Going E it to my cousins husband. Raiq sounds just like a guy a used to work with no matter what you say he'd come back with something negative. I'd say something like it looks like it might rain and he'd say Ya I'll probably a flat tire on the way home.

He is manic depressive. Boy I guess some of you guys really got buried out there. Hope you can get it cleared out! Think I know how to get that pic on here. Gotta go try.

 

[Dr HaHa]

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[Dr HaHa]

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