When we were first married and having kids, three in less than 5yrs. My dh's brother-in -law gave me a huge box of games--jacks, cards, jump rope, play dough, puzzels, a doll w/ clothes (all used).. when I opened it up--he announced (in front of 26 in laws) "NOW, you will have something to play w/ besides DH--you don't need another kid"! I was young and very shy. My dh pulled him aside and told him OFF....
The next yr, he gave me 6 pr of throng underwear that a 'working girl' would have been proud to own"! After that, I refused to open any gift from him--I just picked it up and threw it in the trash... after two yrs.. he got the message and stopped buying me gifts...