Worst possible diagnosis... Cancer

[theuglychick]

I've had a few dogs euthanized due to age or injury and for me, I have to be there holding or touching them in some way.

It's always been reassuringly peaceful for them when they go, and I guess I need to know that.

They've been by my side my entire life, so I feel like I need to be at their side for the rest of theirs.

But I completely understand and sympathize with those who don't wish to be there for that. It's an extremely heavy situation.

I would agree that if you could do a home vet visit, that would be the best. I wish we had that here for dogs. Where I live vets will come out to euthanize horses but not small animals.

My husband and I lost our first Jack Russell abruptly 6 years ago, and that was my husbands best friend and first dog of his own that he had ever lost. He was very upset.

A week later he went on his own and, to my surprise, picked up a new puppy. The puppy distracted him and helped take his mind off of the pain and loss, and kept him busy. I know this doesn't work for everyone, but it did for my husband. I don't grieve the same way that he does, but sometimes only a dog can help cope with the loss of a dog, I guess.

I just wanted to share in case you think it is right for your situation.

I'm praying for y'all and Vinnie.

 

[biophiliac]

Many more small animal vets are willing to do house calls for euthanasia. The last time I faced this with my GSD Zach, the home visit was very peaceful, much better than crying afterward at the vet office. I find I have to be present too. My thoughts are with you 21hens,

 

[21hens-incharge]

Thank you everyone.

Today he is about the same. My son is staying home with him.

When we had to say goodbye to my Cinnamon I never wanted another dog.
My hubby needed that though and yes we argued a bit about it.
In the end he drug me kicking and screaming to answer an ad he saw.
The two remaining puppies were in horrid shape. They came home with us. Poor things are now nearly 9 years old and very much loved.

I doubt my son will be ready for another for a long time.

 

[lazy gardener]

Tough part of pet ownership. for sure. So sorry. Euthanasia is very hard, but in the end, it is more merciful than a slow painful lingering death. As a pet care giver, it seems appropriate that we make these decisions. Hugs to you and your son.