I , for one, enjoy this site, in fact it has surpassed my beloved online mom's group....but I have seen alot--and I mean ALOT-- of fighting, attacking, ugliness ans so on. I think the main point being made here is, be respectful and kind. It's not hard, consider the minors who are on here, stop arguing for no reason.
Honestly, I think the argument about religion is a big waste of time. I don't care what your religious, or non-religious, preference is. If you don't want to send prayers-don't. If you're not a Christian, good for you, believe whatever you want, just be nice!
I mean, and maybe my comparison is inappropriate, but I think it's pretty much like getting upset about posts about silkies, or bantams, or polish, or whatever is your preference, but not mine, ya know?
The good news is, we live in a country where we are allowed to have opinions, and pretty much do whatever we want. So ease up ladies and gentlemen, and go pet your chickens......