Okay....here's the deal . My hubby is working down in California because there is no work up here , and I'm also not working because of the same deal . I'm left with getting 8 cords of wood in , planting/weeding/harvesting our 45'x65' garden , spraying 36 acres of rough country for weeds , taking care of all the animals , taking care of SD , etc (you get my drift) . I have no problem with it . My saw was not working today (really aggrevated me !) so when hubby calls me after he gets off work , I told him about it and how I took it to my uncle to see if he could fix it . I told hubby that if my uncle couldn't , then I'd have to take it to the saw shop ( I think it's the oiler ) . He decides to call up his "buddy" . He told me this and I wasn't happy . His "buddy" called us 4 times to let us know he'd "be up" to fix our tractor . Every single time he said this he was a no show . After a month he finally came up . I explained to hubby that I needed to have the saw fixed soon , and that I couldn't rely on his "buddy " (his buddy owes us for electrical work we did for him). I do after all have 8 cords of wood to get in before winter , and with only me doing it....it takes awhile with all of the other things I have to do . Hubby got mad at me because he thinks his "buddy" should come fix the saw . Am I being totally unreasonable to think that his "buddy" won't get it fixed when I need it , and arguing with my hubby ? I just need some advice to see if I need to say sorry , or if I should stand my ground . I'm not the type of person who spends money all of the time.....I'm in desperate need of socks , and other womanly supportive devices as I only have 2 of those that are 3 yrs old . I'm more apt to put the money in the bank , or buy clothes that his daughter needs .What is his deal ?!