Just keep breathing, Missy. Once they are grown, you can't make their decisions for them, as much as you might like to. When is the wedding going to happen?
It's happening today, at 430, I'm good , your right, it is his choice...I've accepted that, which is big for me! Lol.
@Robin regarding the age of eggs, I am guilty of eating some pretty old eggs. You'll find they are good a LOT longer than the 5 week discard suggestion. I have eggs that a friend gathered and gave me sitting on my counter that I have been slowly going through for 6 weeks. I have tossed about 3 that didn't pass the float test. (I don't know how long they sat on her counter before she gave me a mess because she had so many.) As for store-bought, well, I had some I bought on sale and neglected that stayed in my fridge that kept milk frosty and froze lettuce for four months (you can freeze eggs). The thing is, the farm/backyard eggs taste better, no matter how old they are.