That's not a bad idea but I have to be careful he doesn't notice what I'm up to because he gets moody if he thinks I'm saying something negative about his appearance. Worse than a woman lamenting about the dryer shrinking her jeans...
If I get little ice cream sandwiches or something, the kids are happy too because they refuse to eat ice cream that has spoon marks. So, they get one serving and he ends up eating the rest
and having his feelings hurt because they are grossed out over his spoon marks.