A Bum In My Yard!!!

I love my dogs.
I'd be totally freaked out if someone was camping in MY yard (I guess that's a literal use of NIMBY...).
We have a lot of "travellers" here in Humboldt. I can tell who really could use help, and who just needs beer money. Heck, some carry signs saying they need beer/pot money. It's easy to become jaded after being repeatedly hit up for cash by people who are obviously capable of working, but choose not to.
We've actually seen adults take turns on a corner with kids...The kids stay on the corner all day, but the adults switch off! How messed up is THAT?!
Obviously, the mentally ill need help, but beyond giving a few dollars, I am not qualified to do much more. We have a HUGE failure in that department. Our county has 6 (yes, COUNTY and 6) beds in our mental health facility. One can't get in unless one is imminently a threat to oneself or others. Everyone looks the other way when the muttering ill people go by with their belongings piled into shopping carts. IMO, it's the fault of our local, state, and federal gov'ts for not being able to help these people. No, I'm not "passing the buck", like I said, I do what I can when I can, but I'm not very well-off financially, and as I said, not qualified. The churches do what they can, but it's never enough.
 
I personally would have offered her some words of kindness and gave her a Bible to take with her, after I made her lunch and let her have a hot shower. Then looked up numbers of shelters or places she may be able to go to seek help. Probably given her a clean set of clothing too.....

Just me though....I would try to help anyone, no matter how bad off they are or what bad habits they have. We are all human and deserve kindness and forgiveness
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The homeless are people too, no matter how screwed up their lives are and shouldn't ever be treated like trash....JMHO
 
The OP didnt hose anyone..lol
he hosed down the area after she left. And he had every right to ask the person to leave his property. I wouldnt want someone smoking in my bushes by my house.. would you??
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with that being said..i DO feel bad for homeless people..(.unless they are druggies..then i say its their own fault and wouldnt help them at all)
I dont understand why so many people are homeless here in the USA..yet..we can send all kinds of food and stuff to other countries! We let our war veterans, and mentally challenged and abused women sleep on our streets.. FOR SHAME AMERICA! It makes me sick..something is SO wrong with our country...
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Point is, San Diego, Fire Capital of the planet.
We are on water rations and aren't allowed to water often enough to prevent dead dry debris and leaves.
Even a well raked yard can blaze up in a second. The BUM in my yard was a lady about 29-35 years old. dreadlocks, beads, the whole bit. she was there because she WANTED to be. And was smoking Marlboro Reds. Not cheap. I have also smelled um, Left Hand Rolled coming from the bushes but blamed it on someone in a car toking up.

I've worked with HOMELESS at Father Joe's shelter. It is down the street about a mile. THere is a difference between Homeless and BUMs. Homelessness is a temporary situation with a little help, compasion, and effort will pass.
The Homeless guy on Rosecrans gets my cans to recycle, I save them for him.

Being a BUM is a lifestyle choice that I WILL NOT support in any way. At the corner of Rosecrans snd Midway there are 4 or MORE bums out there every day, they take shifts holding the SAME SIGN!

I have no more compasion, It was wasted on the guy that "Just ran out of gas and needs $3.00 to get back home" The same guy shows up every day. He even changed his story when I drove My car (Alabama plates) He had a southern accent and everything!!!
And wasted on the lady that drags her well groomed dog with the brand new harness out on the corner to beg and harass people, and the punk that holds a sign that says, "Why lie-I just want a beer".
My heart used to ache often, Now I take antacid and run them off.

Help is available and they choose NOT to take it....Not My Problem!
 

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