My husband and I were talking on Tuesday when the site was down and so many were getting impatient and thinking it should be back up a lot faster than it was. I was giving him a synopsis of the situation. He made a great point. He asked me, "Are they paying for this forum?" I told him we were not. That we could buy memberships for certain privileges, but the forum was free. He then said, "If anyone realized how much it costs to run a forum that size, even one that has ad-support, and how much it cost to have people change it over, they would probably complain a little less. It isn't free. It isn't cheap. And someone is paying for it.
Tell your husband he's my new best friend!

I haven't met a single person who has managed a large website with the kind of diversity and volume that we have here, who has said: "Wow, you guys are making some really big mistakes!"... and trust me, the guys and girls I know that run really big sites would have not problem telling us we're screwing up.
