On very few occasions, my husband and I have. The last time was several years ago, we do not go out in general (we have two small children). So we went to a fondue place that was very expensive, but included several courses (lost count), was wonderful, included lobster and filet as well as other meats. It was wonderful, fun, took several hours, quite the event for just the two of us, in fact, it was a lunch (even worse to admit the cost of 140 bucks or so). We don't drink (beer outdates in our fridge when we do have it), smoke, or blow money on other stuff, so because we can afford it occasionally, I don't worry about it much. Now, we have other friends who regularly have date night, etc., we don't do that because we don't get sitters often (we had our kids late in life and we actually love doing stuff with them). The kids go to daycare 2-3 days a week while I work and we think that's plenty. I don't begrudge those who do it often, it's just not our thing. I love a good meal, great service, but only if it's something I can't or won't cook at home because I'm pretty good at whipping up a mean meal on my own and I enjoy it to boot.