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Well about my SIL daughter being kidnapped. The CPS (child protective services) was on her side. They believed the MIL lies. She is really really good. So SIL couldnt file kidnapping charges. But SIL had to go to court also. My motto for my MIL is "She isnt happy unless she makes every one around her unhappy" Im starting to think that is SIL's motto too.
Yup I have an addicted gamer. First it was Playstation 2, then it went to Playstation 3 that went online. He got mad at the way PS3 ran their online service. More clitches and hackers. So he sold it and went to XBox360. But it is still the same game. Call of Duty. And that is the only game he plays on his xbox360. He owns one other game for it, but never plays it. SIL and soon to be BIL are addicted to it also. They used to come down here to our house with their extra TV and Playstation 3 and have two systems running at the same time. So they could all play together. Cause the game is only one player. That way 2 out of the 3 people could play at same time. Sad really. While I would just sit here and read BYC... And they would laugh at me for wanting to read about poultry.
I hope he finds a job else where soon. But with the economy the way it is, will need lots of luck. With all the logging stopping there are barely any jobs around here. There are only 2 of my family members we could move closer to. One is 4 1/4 hours away from here. We moved there. Couldnt find jobs then got stuck back down here again. The other one is about 3 1/2 hours away. It is my mom and her boyfriend. Their house is full. My grandma just moved there from this county. We would have no where to stay. But if it was nice we could stay in a tent. We dont own an RV. But it is just so darn hot in Medford where my mom is, and she dont have air conditioning. Its been around 100 over there. When it is only been in the 70s here. We would so cook over there, and with my daughter and mine nose conditon, we most likely not be able to breath over there. But he is still looking over there any way. We were thinking about moving to Coos Bay. It is 1 1/2 hours from his mom. And it still leaves us on the coast, where the temps are the same as we are used to. Ive never lived any where except for the coast. I cant stand the heat inland.
If I was some one else looking in on my life like you all are. I would just shake my head and wonder. Or laugh or both. But it so hard to get away from somewhere you dont like with out any money. And yes, plenty of people have said I should have left DH before and not put up with him after this happened. Well divorces with kids are very very spendy. A long fight.. I have no money of my own. I cant work. I have a bum knee. It needs surgery that I cant afford. So I cant work until it gets fixed. I was a housekeeper and then a senior care giver before I hurt my knee. Cant do that work if I can handle lots of weight or walking. I cant get disability like some friends have suggested, its because my condition is fixable. Well by the time they actually get in there, it might not be fixable. And some people have said that if I cant do manual jobs then I should get an office job. Around here those are few and far between. And I cant type fast enough or have enough computer knowledge for it. They want you to know all these different programs and such. I have no idea what they are. It was hard enough for me to figure out the net. When I was in High School only the computer basics were required to graduate. And that was on the old apple computers that either had orange or green letters. It wasnt until my last year of school that they got the computers that had color screens.
I hear alot of I CAN'Ts.............why not start focusing on the I CANs, it really makes a difference.
