Anyone else not doing Christmas this year?

[Dunkopf]

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Ya, Xmas is just plain old stupid. I think Scrooges do that on purpose. I think it is so empty and lonely and oh just can't think of the right word. Poor scrooges!

Check out the history... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xmas

Just think, all those people who've said that JUST to annoy you are really saying CHRISTmas the whole time.. neener neener.

I heard that on NPR last year during the annual celebration of the WAR on Christmas, presented by guess who? I couldn't remember specifics so I didn't say anything.

 

[jasonm11]

The wife and I are keeping it sparce this year, read kids only. But please remember what Christmas is about. If you are a Christian then rejoice in the Lord for He is good. if not have a great holiday. I will not hold it against you and in fact i am praying for all of you nightly. If for nothing more that simple human kindness do not let yourself get in the way of the joy of the season. May God bless and keep you

Jason M

 

[Up-the-Creek]

I have soooo had enough of Christmas

. I still have kids at home so we will do what we "have" to so we can keep peace. A small tree and presents, that it and not many presents, no spoiling here.

I do no more baking, no more decorating, and I sure as crap don't send Christmas cards. Starting at Halloween, which USED to be my favorite holiday, they commercialize everything to death. The magic is gone, it has been beat to death and buried. Plus, Im not religious so,...but I do light candles for the solstice.

Yes call me the grinch,.....

 

[BunnyMomma]

When you say "I'm not doing Christmas this year!" Be careful what you wish for. Christmas has always been my favorite time of year. I grew up with a loving mom and dad, and a brother. Our family always got together for Christmas dinner, and when we could afford it we exchanged gifts. Six years ago, my DH fell off of a roof, while he was a work. I was in my first year of Nursing School. When he fell, it was really bad. His ankle was shattered like puzzle pieces, and his leg bones were broken to bits. Instantly, we had no income. And he was in a hospital bed for months. I had to quit school and I was seriously losing it!
At the same time, my oldest daughter was not taking care of her children, a 17 month boy and 4 year old girl. I took custody of them, literally saving their lives. My youngest daughter became pregnant at the same time, and her fiance hung himself. I ended up selling 30 acres of my farm to keep from losing it. I took care of all of them, and opened a small home business to pay the bills. Needless to say, I haven't had a Christmas since. Not because I didn't want one. I just had to focus on the important job of taking care of my family. I have never had Six years to pass so quickly. I celebrate Christ every day though. He brought me through the most impossible times I could imagine. Merry Christmas!

 

[chickensducks&agoose]

I love the smell of pine, baking cookies, and sparkling lights. I don't see how anyone can NOT like these things. as far as religion, of course it's totally your own personal preference. but snow, piney goodness, and an excuse to binge on sugar? Heck YES!!!

 

[nuchickontheblock]

As a Jew, I don't celebrate Christmas, but I have always enjoyed Christmas music, looking at Christmas decorations, and driving in an evening and looking at beautiful Christmas lights. It brightens up a dark, cold time of the year. I've never been offended if someone in a friendly way wishes me Merry Christmas. I always wish them a Merry Christmas too. I'm also happy that Chanukah is low key, and I can enjoy the nightly candles and getting together with family without too many expectations. I don't get caught up in the commercialism of the season too much, because I have a really large family with 15 grandkids so gift giving is at a minimum.

To me, life is about trying to find love, joy and meaning in our experiences all year long. Celebrating holidays is one way, but so is laughing as the peeps run to get a treat, enjoying a baby's smile, listening appreciatively to a grandson playing the trombone, kissing someone goodnight, and looking up and seeing the glorious stars.

Hope you all find your joy. Not just this month, but throughout the year.
Paula

 

[Knock Kneed Hen]

Me & My Peeps :

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Jehovah Witnesses!!

I'm a JW and I don't get offended. I just say "thanks". I'm sorry if that's been your experience.​

 

[Beekissed]

I haven't decorated like I usually do but I will still put up my table top nativity that I have put up for the last 24 years. But, mostly, I will be keeping Christmas in my heart this year. That is where it grows and glows and I share it all year and will still probably share it this year as well....but I don't feel like decorating and shopping this year at all.

 

[CityGirlintheCountry]

I have to admit, Christmas gets harder and harder for me as I get older. I HATE being single this time of year. Most of the year I manage okay, but this time of year it really hits home and hurts. Christmas is about families and spending time with those you love. The songs and movies and television all talk about spending time with the one you love and all that. I know what I'm doing New Years. Absolutely nothing. I'll be sitting home alone Christmas Eve, New Year's Eve and all the other together times. It is incredibly lonely. I am starting to really dread the season.

I have asked God for a husband and family for 25+ years now and He has ignored me. It kind of sucks the joy out of the season. Perhaps I should ask Santa...

 

[redhen]

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Thread hijack..
Have you tried any of those dating sites? Thats kinda how i met my hubby...