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No one is 'plain', actually, that's a 1930's movie idea, and nothing else. It has no merit. As far as kids, look, you change one diaper, and boom, it's yours, biology or not. That's just how we are. But sometimes the wish to nurture is fulfilled not by being a parent, but by helping families, and there are many ways to do that. Do things that make you feel good - get a new hair cut, buy new clothes, go to the gym for a fitness program, do something that makes you enjoy you. When you start to like you, amazing things happen.