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I gotta commend you, it is hard to do. While in school, I gained 15 pounds. In the past year, I lost that plus another 3! I need to lose another 20, then I will have my BMI below 25, the optimum for good health for my height.
One of the things that is inspiring me is my oldest daughter is getting big, at 13 she is obese and on the road to poor health. We never push her and the first time I discussed it with her, she was crying and told me she was ashamed. Do you think I wasn't crying also?
It is hard to get motivated to do it, I know. Plus, it is very easy to eat, food is always available... and it isn't like you can quit like cigarettes, alcohol, or drugs, you MUST eat to stay alive!
If it takes the child to motivate you, go with it, anything works. You do need to be around for him. I will keep you in my prayers.
Oh, I just finished running 3 miles, 20 minutes ago! I haven't done that since my last physical fitness test in the Marines on 26 Nov 2005, almost 4 years ago to the date. I have since retired.
Awesome on your weight loss. Tonight I wanted to walk around the block and see some of the christmas lights and David thought that we couldn't because it was dark out. I really intended on walking but the next thing I knew David took off running. I yelled for him to stop and he did then looked at me and said, " Mom I dare ya!" So I did the only thing I could do and took off running to catch him. We did little short races all the way around the block. I tell ya I have not laughed that hard in a really long time. It was tons of fun and I would do it again in a heartbeat. Right now I might only be able to run 25 feet at a time but that is the most hilarious 25 feet on the planet. I'm still laughing. I put my insecurities away and I ran with my baby!!!!
I was an obese child and I can feel your daughter's pain. I wish no one would have ever told me what not to eat or when to eat because everytime they did that it made me feel stupid. Keep it upbeat. Love her no matter what her size and educate her as much as possible. She will be fine with your guidance and love. Keep it fun and maybe just make a time each day even if it is an hour to do something spontaneous and off the wall like I did tonight. 6 months ago I would have been horrified to think that someone might actually see me running or walking but tonight it didn't matter. For the first time I didn't care because I was laughing and I was having fun NOT EXERCISING just having fun. I decided that even if I don't lose not a single pound I am just going to live a healthier life. It is less overwhelming than to say to myself that I have 200 pounds to lose and I am going to go on a diet. Diets don't work cause no one can eat that way forever. Portion control and good choices and some sort of activity each day is the only way in my book. I can eat anything I want even cheesecake but I can only have a small amount not half the cake ya know. Deprivation has always caused me to fail in the past. Good luck with your daughter. Live, Love, and Laugh~~