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That makes me sad. Kids aren't burdens, they are blessings. It isn't always easy, but I can't imagine my life without even one of the 5 that I have. In fact, I love the last as much as the first. I am soooo sad that we may not have more. I feel like I might be missing out on this amazing person God had planned for me to have in my life. The first 5 were AMAZING. I have no reason to think that the next would be a disappointment.
Yeah, I know I am alone in this. Everyone thinks I'm a weirdo. I can embrace being weird, but I still can't get it. The worst part to me is the stupid comments I get about not knowing what causes it, or not having cable, or "your done NOW right??????", like I am a horrible person and should not procreate. But the kids? They are the only things on this earth that I can take to Heaven with me, and they are the only thing other than my husband that really, really matters, that I can't live without. Okay, I'm done now.
Ahhhhh. That was heartfelt and lovely. See, somebody like you should have all the bunches of kids you can afford, and to heck with anyone who ignorantly makes comments having to do with decisions that are none of their business.
But don't be sad when someone says they don't want kids, or is glad they only have one. These people know their own minds and capabilities and I applaud their mindful decision to take on exactly what they decide they want to, and not more. Nothing sadder than someone producing child after helpless child without the resources to nurture them.
My 3 girls are adopted.
MEG!!!!!!!!!! Welcome to my world! Adoption has been the highlight of my life and also a very scary road. But given the chance(and more money, a bigger house, more patince, etc) I would do it ALL OVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!! I am sooooo thankful to my kids' birthmoms everyday for the decision they made and that let us become parents. There are a lot of women out there who do the right thing and chose the baby over themselves. I've seen it happen countless times, but I have seen it go the other way too. Adoption is not for the faint of heart. But i'd still do it again.