i know no one here wants any backlash about spanking, but i believe with all my heart that there are better ways to get a child's attention than causing them pain. i'm not a mother, but i could never NEVER raise my hand to a defenseless child, no matter how insubordinately he/she was behaving. i was probably spanked once or twice, but for the most part i was well behaved. my older brothers were threatened, and spanked, with a wooden spoon, or soap in the mouth.
my middle brother always spoke to his son in a very calm and rational way, even when he was a baby. this amazing, now 18 year old has never needed discipline because just explaining right and wrong to him in a way that showed him respect was enough.
my eldest brother has smaller kids, and a shorter fuse. time-outs are usually all it takes. they will even go into time-out on their own when they know they've done something inappropriate.
just my thoughts...
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my middle brother always spoke to his son in a very calm and rational way, even when he was a baby. this amazing, now 18 year old has never needed discipline because just explaining right and wrong to him in a way that showed him respect was enough.
my eldest brother has smaller kids, and a shorter fuse. time-outs are usually all it takes. they will even go into time-out on their own when they know they've done something inappropriate.
just my thoughts...
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