Not sure what forum you're talking about when you complain that the people are too mean. If it's dairygoatinfo.com, you're waaay too sensitive. The only difference is that many of those people are knowledgeable and professional, relying on their goats for some or most of their livlihood. To a person, they are courteous and helpful. There IS far less of the vapid, silly, city people pretending to farm crap of "Oh, my little chickie did something sooo cute!" If that's what you want, BYC is the place for you.
Madfarmer