Kids are a lot more observant than most parents give them credit for. My 14 year old son is in the 8th grade and he along with most students know every detail about every teacher like which one cheated on their spouse, which one is gay, which one got a DUII and so on and so on. I for one am not in a big hurry to expose my kids to the uglies of the world and for that reason I try to limit what I can but I also am a realist and know it will happen eventually and will do my part to see that he/she is prepared to make the right decision when that time comes because most likely I won't be there looking over his shoulder when it happens.