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Wow!
you are the first guy that has EVER tried to convince me that women are worse ones about 'admiring'. I am young, I am NOT naive. Sorry.
How come there are so many MENS magazines with 'swimsuit' editions.... To be honest I have never seen Redbook or Womens Day have a male swimsuit edition. Maybe they have, but I have never seen it!
But it was a good try, I applaud your efforts!
Besides, there is looking, and then there is
LOOKING- I think we all know the difference!
Men and women look at pics differently. There are plenty of pics of
men in boxers and such in women's magazines. They are just more
subtle. Women, in many ways, are more sophisticated too. A guy in
a hot suit is a turn-on as much as a gal in a bikini is to a guy.
Ever go to a male strip club? The women are ANIMALS. If we acted
the same way we'd be thrown out or beat up.
How about all the women who went crazy for Obama when the pics
of him in the surf with the ripped abs came out?
I'm in no way saying there is anything wrong with any of this nor
is there a problem with looking. Most secure people can look at
an attractive person of the same sex or opposite sex and appreciate
their physiques. Now if it goes to the level of lust then it's a problem.
Everything you say is very, very true! And I totally agree with you.
It makes me just as upset when I hear women talking rudely about men. I dont look at other guys that way, and It would be nice if they diddnt look at me that way either.
And yes, I agree that there is nothing wrong with looking untill it turns into lust. I guess I grew up in a Church where there was a lot of TABOOS and so the men were all very unstable in secret. You think Rednecks are messed up.... it was BAD. So I tend to be a little defensive about it. (Thankfully my family was a lot more easygoing then most)
But I have a wonderful Church now, and I am seeing that not all people have issues like that. (Except my BIL who keeps trying to get me too drunk to think.
) Sorry if I sounded judgmental or anything. I LOVE being around guys that I can relax around, without having to watch what I say or how I sit... etc. In fact some of my best friends are men. So I dont want anyone to think I am a male basher.
Wow I am jabbering this morning.