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X2. Well said and needed to be said. The OP seems to think that anything s/he says is okay though, but orders others to not say anything at all if it isn't "nice". 'Nice' is a relative term and I'd be in someones face if they *told* me when I should/could say something or not.
It isn't rude to give your opinion. It is rude to do it in a way that disdains anyone who doesn't agree and call them stupid.
I'm a she and I believe in the "treat others like you would want to treat them" rule. How would a person feel if I came up to them and told them that they were fat and no one would ever want to be near them? They would feel horrible or shrug it off if they were used to harsh opinions like that. And if they were used to harsh opinions like that, that's even terrible-er! I don't like negative opinions and when they do come at me I'm usually okay with it, because children and immature teens do it. I'm okay with that. They have time to learn.
When it comes from an adult, first thing that comes to my mind is "was that really neccessary?".
I'm not ordering anyone to not have negative opinions, but I would suggest to an adult that insulting a teen through the web is an immature act. In real life it's immature also. Best thing is, if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all. <-- In my opinion it is anyways.