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[ShrekDawg]

My dad does environmental clean up

 

[ShrekDawg]

I loved my grandmother(mom's mom) very much too she had interesting stories and a great sense of humor. My father's mom I guess was older and she always talked about me like I wasn't even there. You know things like "what's wrong with her?" Duh, I was very shy.

I'm sorry DD! That's awful

My mom passed away Dec. 1st 2002, went in hospital Thanksgiving Day! I gave her a heart pendant many years ago, had the inscription "Everyday", cause I thought about her everyday. And still do!

Sean

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I'm sorry Diva but for some reason I don"t see you as being shy!

Lol same

My mom passed Christmas day in 1999. I still miss her every day and dad passed Jan 3, 2000 that was tough. I was closed to both of them I cared for them for 12 years before they passed. I moved them across the street so I could be close to them.

Aww geez! That's really rough! I'm sorry

Was he sick too or was it like a broken heart type thing?

So sorry though

I found my grape vine now has grapes!
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Do you have to spray grapes?

I know exactly what your talking about. Took care of both my parents for 20 years before they passed. Moved close to mine then in the final few years, moved in with them, both needed 24hr care. My Dad passed away 1 week before my Birthday! That was really tough! but so was my Mom's passing. There's still so many things I wish I could talk to them about. And I miss talking in my native language with my Dad! They took care of me....I took care of them.

So sorry Sean!

Good morning Cafe, the coffee is ready.

to everyone missing family today.

Thanks Debby!

Good morning! Thanks for the coffee! Another nice day here and then decent chances of rain through Monday. Hugs to All!

Thanks!

Good morning, Café.







deedee, My Mom's birthday was July 12th - gives us another connection. I'll be thinking of your Mom every 7/12.

Although I miss my parents, when I think of them now it is not so much a sense of loss as it is a pleasant memory of good times or incidents. This brings a smile to my face rather than a tear.

Aw that's sweet!

I should try that cause so far the only thing I think is how I didn't spend enough time with her and how bad i am for that which obviously doesn't do any good cause i can't change that not

 

[drumstick diva]

Honestly guys, I WAS painfully shy due to stuff from my early childhood. But half a lifetime of years ago I started seeing a psychiatrist. Started getting better in bits & pieces. BYC online is also the best enabler for shy people. Ta dah! Look at me now

 

[ronott1]

Honestly guys, I WAS painfully shy due to stuff from my early childhood. But half a lifetime of years ago I started seeing a psychiatrist. Started getting better in bits & pieces. BYC online is also the best enabler for shy people. Ta dah! Look at me now

Yep!

Number one in posts on BYC!

 

[chickadoodles]

I'm sorry DD! That's awful







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Lol same



Aww geez! That's really rough! I'm sorry

Was he sick too or was it like a broken heart type thing?

No actually my dad was in the hospital for 2 weeks when mom passed. Then he did. He went into a coma and woke up and asked me about mom. I had to tell him. And he said he already knew that she told him he could have the TV and good bye.

So sorry though



Do you have to spray grapes?

I will spread as y them with water and a bit of dawn dish soap.



So sorry Sean!



Thanks Debby!



Thanks!



Aw that's sweet!

I should try that cause so far the only thing I think is how I didn't spend enough time with her and how bad i am for that which obviously doesn't do any good cause i can't change that not

 

[chickadoodles]

Honestly guys, I WAS painfully shy due to stuff from my early childhood. But half a lifetime of years ago I started seeing a psychiatrist. Started getting better in bits & pieces. BYC online is also the best enabler for shy people. Ta dah! Look at me now

Diva it worked. Your not shy any more.

 

[ShrekDawg]

Aw thats sad. But do you think it's possible they talked or something when he was in the coma? Heard all sorts of crazy stories of crazy stuff happening

And ohhh okay. My dad doesnt want them as he says you have to spray with too many pesticides.

Although i just found out about this milk thing that supposedly works amazing

 

[ShrekDawg]

Just picked up my cap and gown...

 

[Alaskan]

Just picked up my cap and gown...View attachment 1381894

very excellent! congrats!

 

[pennyJo1960]

Honestly guys, I WAS painfully shy due to stuff from my early childhood. But half a lifetime of years ago I started seeing a psychiatrist. Started getting better in bits & pieces. BYC online is also the best enabler for shy people. Ta dah! Look at me now

I also was a very shy child

Just picked up my cap and gown...View attachment 1381894

congratulations