I have no doubt you have a handle on dealing with DH's issues.....You may ask yourself, "what is she going to do about them?"
...it's the asshole family members.
I hope you're legally covered, may need restraining orders on the fam?
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I have no doubt you have a handle on dealing with DH's issues.....You may ask yourself, "what is she going to do about them?"
Don't know. We'll have to see how this shakes out.I have no doubt you have a handle on dealing with DH's issues.....
...it's the asshole family members.
I hope you're legally covered, may need restraining orders on the fam?
That's the scariest part.can't really understand what's going on
Roofers are done
Tell them to feck orf DL. I have similar family problems from other causes so I feel your anger and frustration.I've had one of THOSE days.
DHs family have all taken to making decisions about DHs care without even once discussing with the one person walking this planet who knows more about his condition than anyone else because said person lives with him.
I got an email from DHs daughter last week stating she wanted to come up for a visit on 9/11 to talk about her father. That she thought her brother and aunts and uncles were all talking to me about having someone stay with DH when I was gone "ALL day" and that there was some disagreement.
No one has talked to me. I have been given the third degree, have had our lifestyle choices insulted, and been informed that all the family thinks DH should not be left alone. I kept trying to explain that DHs confusion would have been amplified outside his home while visiting them and that he is still doing okay at home. They don't agree. Okay. How would you know? You don't live with him. I do.
I knew I'd made appointments for both of us for physicals and they were coming up but couldn't remember when because I forgot to put them in my calendar.
I called the doctor's office to get the date and times. I was told that DH had TWO appointments??!! What?
One on the same day as me, which I scheduled that way.
One for 9/11. I didn't made that one. Hmm. Same day as the planned visit. Hmm. Is this also part of their "discussions" with me? Making appointments for him with his PCP behind my back? I requested that the office pull up the HIPPA on record. Oh? Really? I'm the only one listed that the doctor can discuss his condition with? I had NOOOO idea!
Suffice it to say that I cancelled the appointment.
Sorry for the rant. Even if no one reads it, it felt good to write it!!
Oh, but I'd love to! If I ever get someone one on one they may very well end up with that.Tell them to feck orf DL.
You have a lot of company here in agreement!Crawling around on the ground is a bear...let alone getting down and back up.
At least someone is finally looking at it!Looks like a cut further into the adjacent bank is going to be a partial solution but given the outside edge is going to crumble again it needs reinforcing at that will cost thousands.