I love this post! I’m so glad you’re here. I hope you’ll stay.I'm not certain as to whether or not moving the patient into another room in the home that they are familiar with is as traumatizing as moving them to an entirely different home or facility.
In the person's home it would be possible for that person to 'visit' the room. Get used to his or her surroundings. Maybe go there to take a nap, sit, watch TV, etc so that when the big move occurs it isn't as unfamiliar to them.
Also there are 'trick's that you can do to keep them where you want them. People with Alzheimer's disease lose their depth perception. You can lay a black towel or rug in front of their door and they will not step on it because to them, it looks like a 'chasm' they might fall down into.
The main problem with moving them is an uptick in sundowning where they become restless and wander more at night. We noticed them also being more restless when the moon was full.
One of my favorite stories from my experiences working with them was the night one of our Alzheimer patients 'disappeared' right at shift change. We went into panic mode. It was night, it was winter. We locked the place down (almost 200 beds so it was a big facility) and started protocol searching. An hour later, still no sign of the patient. We knew they were inside somewhere as no door alarms had not sounded and they had been sighted shortly before coming up missing.
I was walking through the dining area and on an impulse, checked the doors to the kitchen. One, the door that they kept unlocked so the aids could access a snack refrigerator that they had for the residents, was indeed unlocked. I opened the door and there set the resident in their little geri-walker a contraption made of 1 1/2 inch and 2 inch PVC pipe with a built in seat and wheels that allows an Alzheimer's patient to walk around, sit, socialize with virtually 0 fall risk (although I did once see two 'crash' into one another and tip over)
I went in and called the resident by name and asked them what the devil were they doing sitting in the kitchen? This little old person, very funny, very sweet, completely lost in their own mind because of this horrible disease looked up and me, smiled and said 'Waiting for you to find me!' All I could do was laugh and hug them.
I enjoyed working with Alzheimers patients. The disease is so much harder on the family and loved ones than it is on the person who is suffering from the disease. The family sees what is happening to their loved one, the loss of memory....self....identity while the victim is trapped in their own reality and mind. Family members would ask me how their mom was and I would say, Oh, she's having a great day today in 'Sallyland'. Because that is what they are doing. Living in their own little world that has locked out everyone and everything that they once upon a time loved and remembered.
We worry so much about Covid and other illnesses right now and Alzheimer's disease is the one we should all fear the most.