BYC Café

[Meg-in-MT]

I’m gonna stick with goats. Getting them next year. Hopefully some nubianXkiko.
We have 7 acres but I wouldn’t want to artificially inseminate a female cow and we definitely wouldn’t want a bull so goats will be perfect. Just have to separate the billy after breeding.

That sounds like fun. I love goats. I've got a Nubian, 2 Nigerian dwarfs and one fainter. Do you like goats milk? I've never tried it. If like to do goats milk soap.

 

[A_Fowl_Guy]

That sounds like fun. I love goats. I've got a Nubian, 2 Nigerian dwarfs and one fainter. Do you like goats milk? I've never tried it. If like to do goats milk soap.

I like the taste and I know how to make cheese. I would love to learn to make goats milk soap! I get it at the farmers market since her stall is next to mine.

 

[Meg-in-MT]

I've

I like the taste and I know how to make cheese. I would love to learn to make goats milk soap! I get it at the farmers market since her stall is next to mine.

Never had cheese either! That's awesome.

 

[ShrekDawg]

She also likes blueberries and black berries. Her pen has black berry bushes pushed up on one side so she can snack when she wants.

That’s awesome!! My chickens love berries lol

Haha me? 8yrs in July

Wow that’s a long time!! You got married really young then? I only ask because I just know I was surprised when you said your moms age recently because I realized you’re way younger than I thought. Sorry if this is at all invasive or rude or insensitive or anything because I know it is personal and I know it is still so recent with everything too so sorry.

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Glad it’s not just me lol

You me and @Meg-in-MT will have to stick together LOL

 

[ShrekDawg]

I want goats eventually.

 

[Meg-in-MT]

That’s awesome!! My chickens love berries lol



Wow that’s a long time!! You got married really young then? I only ask because I just know I was surprised when you said your moms age recently because I realized you’re way younger than I thought. Sorry if this is at all invasive or rude or insensitive or anything because I know it is personal and I know it is still so recent with everything too so sorry.



Glad it’s not just me lol

You me and @Meg-in-MT will have to stick together LOL

Oh, no worries. I feel bad for people trying to talk to me about it because they seem uncomfortable, but reality is reality and it feels better to talk about it. So I thank you for just being yourself. I don't think you're any of those things. At any rate, I'm 32 and will be 33 in August. So maybe I got married young, haha. It's all relative I guess.

 

[Meg-in-MT]

And I don't mean that people are uncomfortable in a derogatory way, I never knew how to talk to people about it either. But my ma has been my biggest loss of all and I feel like sometimes you have to know before you understand. At least in my case. It was hard for me to empathize without being awkward, because I didn't really "get" it. That's a hard lesson. You guys have really helped me open up a bit, just by being yourselves. Means the world.

 

[ShrekDawg]

Oh, no worries. I feel bad for people trying to talk to me about it because they seem uncomfortable, but reality is reality and it feels better to talk about it. So I thank you for just being yourself. I don't think you're any of those things. At any rate, I'm 32 and will be 33 in August. So maybe I got married young, haha. It's all relative I guess.

I imagine a bit of normalcy might be a bit of a relief from all the generic sympathy or people dodging the topic. Thanks to you too for being so nice and everything.

Anyway, wow so older than I thought but also younger haha so either you got married young or your mom had you young or both? You were what? 24? That’s not that young I guess considering some people get married at like 18 or 20 and I’m always like haha but I guess it’s just young to me because I turned 25 in March and I can’t imagine getting married or having kids now haha I figured you were like my age aha

 

[ronott1]

And I don't mean that people are uncomfortable in a derogatory way, I never knew how to talk to people about it either. But my ma has been my biggest loss of all and I feel like sometimes you have to know before you understand. At least in my case. It was hard for me to empathize without being awkward, because I didn't really "get" it. That's a hard lesson. You guys have really helped me open up a bit, just by being yourselves. Means the world.

That means a lot to me!

 

[ShrekDawg]

And I don't mean that people are uncomfortable in a derogatory way, I never knew how to talk to people about it either. But my ma has been my biggest loss of all and I feel like sometimes you have to know before you understand. At least in my case. It was hard for me to empathize without being awkward, because I didn't really "get" it. That's a hard lesson. You guys have really helped me open up a bit, just by being yourselves. Means the world.

Sometimes talking about things helps. Or even just talking about anything. I think sometimes people fee like they have to talk about it if they’re with you or talking to you or whatever but I imagine sometimes just staying normal and talking about normal things is just as much or more of a help probably. But idk.

Anyway, I will just say again one more time that I am very sorry.