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Good evening Cafe.
I got a call from DH Jr yesterday. He wanted to talk about his dad's condition. He and his sister were so surprised at how much worse he is now than when they saw him at Christmas time. Well, yeah. He's not going to get better. He's on a steady decline.
He then told me that DH's sister, who has him now, wants me to send down another week's worth of meds and supplements because the original plan for her to bring him back to PA this Friday has changed due to some critical scheduling for her DH. So I'll likely get an additional 5 days before I go down to pick him up. That's good for me. And good for his family.
They can start to get a tiny idea of just what I go through on a day to day basis taking care of him. But let's add in the fact that they all have partners to help them. I don't.
Most of them are fully retired. I'm not.
They all have support structures around to help. I don't.
They all don't have THREE houses they are working on. I DO!!!
They are FINALLY starting to 'get it'. Let's see if anyone steps up to the plate to help me out by taking him more than just once a year...
 
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Good evening Cafe.
I got a call from DH Jr yesterday. He wanted to talk about his dad's condition. He and his sister were so surprised and how much worse he is now than when they saw him at Christmas time. Well, yeah. He's not going to get better. He's on a steady decline.
He then told me that DH's sister, who has him now, wants me to send down another week's worth of meds and supplements because the original plan for her to bring him back to PA this Friday has changed due to some critical scheduling for her DH. So I'll likely get an additional 5 days before I go down to pick him up. That's good for me. And good for his family.
They can start to get a tiny idea of just what I go through on a day to day basis taking care of him. But let's add in the fact that they all have partners to help them. I don't.
Most of them are fully retired. I'm not.
They all have support structures around to help. I don't.
They all don't have THREE houses they are working on. I DO!!!
They are FINALLY starting to 'get it'. Let's see if anyone steps up to the plate to help me out by taking him more than just once a year...
Big big hugs to you, Tonya. Even still, they can't understand what you do, but it's good that they are really starting to see and will hopefully help you out more. :hugs :hugs :hugs
 
Good evening Cafe.
I got a call from DH Jr yesterday. He wanted to talk about his dad's condition. He and his sister were so surprised and how much worse he is now than when they saw him at Christmas time. Well, yeah. He's not going to get better. He's on a steady decline.
He then told me that DH's sister, who has him now, wants me to send down another week's worth of meds and supplements because the original plan for her to bring him back to PA this Friday has changed due to some critical scheduling for her DH. So I'll likely get an additional 5 days before I go down to pick him up. That's good for me. And good for his family.
They can start to get a tiny idea of just what I go through on a day to day basis taking care of him. But let's add in the fact that they all have partners to help them. I don't.
Most of them are fully retired. I'm not.
They all have support structures around to help. I don't.
They all don't have THREE houses they are working on. I DO!!!
They are FINALLY starting to 'get it'. Let's see if anyone steps up to the plate to help me out by taking him more than just once a year...

:hugs
 
I'd love to see a picture of it and the fruits!
I'll take one today and post later.
Let's see if anyone steps up to the plate to help me out by taking him more than just once a year...
I hope someone does too. Now they have a better understanding, they jolly well should. :fl
 

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