You will both be fine after getting used to the new situation.I've been keeping DH very involved with open discussion about his pending move to the Homestead site at the foot of the hill.
When we spent last Friday together hauling lumber, at one point he was choking up when I was talking about the move. I had to pull over to try to get him to tell me what was wrong. Was it just that he didn't really want to go or that he didn't like the site I picked or what. He actually said that he wanted me to go there with him.Poor guy.
I then went rambling on about how this move was going to be a very good thing for both of us and kept telling him, "you're not getting rid of me so easy, mister". You'll still be coming home once a week to spend the day with me, I'll still come get you at least one morning a week to walk in the fields with the dogs, and take you on shopping runs, etc. That calmed him down and made him smile. I then stopped outside the house he'll be moving to and pointed to the window that will be his bedroom and told him how I'd come get him and look how close it is to home. You'll have two homes soon.
I hope that sticks with him because he'll be moving in on Memorial Day and that's coming up fast. This is going to be hard for both of us and I don't know what else I can do to make it easier for him. But not doing it is going to kill me I think. I had just a little taste of me being me that day I was moving the lumber and I felt so good again for a little bit of time.
And you can spend time together any time you want, as the new place is so near.
