BYC Café

[Ladies-Eight]

Cafe good afternoon one and all!

Tea is ready.

Temperature is in the 60s and sunny.

Have a great day!

 

[DobieLover]

Coffee is ready.

I picked up my keepsake urn and cremation necklace for Dave yesterday. I thought I was also picking up the main urn as the son told me they'd both gone home to VA and WV. His sister drove all the way up from WV to get him because she didn't want me to have him. What a petty little ant. It was she that wrote that horrible obit too. Don't they realize they can NEVER keep him from me? He will be a part of me forever. I have my bit of his physical self and all of my memories and feelings and they can never take that from me.

I have decided I'm going to have a celebration of life for him this Sept near his birthday. It will be in the Heritage Center in Endicott. We met and worked in Endicott and all his former co-workers and friends commuted there so the venue is perfect. I will most assuredly NOT be inviting his family to attend. I'm so done with all their judgy crap.

 

[Mtn Margie]

DL, I love your plan. It will be special and meaningful to the people that really knew you two.

I am off on a car retrieval trip here in a few. It is flaking again.
I got the garden seeds that I ordered so I will give the ones I bought for my friend to her today and maybe get her looking and planning more forward.

 

[sourland]

Good morning, and thanks for the coffee.

Coffee is ready.

Don't they realize they can NEVER keep him from me? He will be a part of me forever. I have my bit of his physical self and all of my memories and feelings and they can never take that from me.

I have decided I'm going to have a celebration of life for him this Sept near is birthday. It will be in the Heritage Center in Endicott. We met and worked in Endicott and all his former co-workers and friends commuted there so the venue is perfect. I will most assuredly NOT be inviting his family to attend. I'm so done with all their judgy crap.

That's a fact and a good plan. You are literally and figuratively DONE with them. I would suggest refusing any further interaction.

 

[Ladies-Eight]

Cafe good afternoon one and all!

Tea is ready.

Temperature is in the 60s and sunny.

Have a great day!

 

[Sally PB]

That's a fact and a good plan. You are literally and figuratively DONE with them. I would suggest refusing any further interaction.

Yes, and YES! He may have been born into that family, but he CHOSE you!

 

[pennyJo1960]

We have no drama here, thank are lucky stars.
Sun is out here still mud in the run, one day of sun will not dry it.
Have to agree leave the trouble folks far behind DL.

 

[sourland]

Have to agree leave the trouble folks far behind DL.

Friends are the family we make for ourselves.

 

[bobbi-j]

Coffee is ready.

I picked up my keepsake urn and cremation necklace for Dave yesterday. I thought I was also picking up the main urn as the son told me they'd both gone home to VA and WV. His sister drove all the way up from WV to get him because she didn't want me to have him. What a petty little ant. It was she that wrote that horrible obit too. Don't they realize they can NEVER keep him from me? He will be a part of me forever. I have my bit of his physical self and all of my memories and feelings and they can never take that from me.

I have decided I'm going to have a celebration of life for him this Sept near his birthday. It will be in the Heritage Center in Endicott. We met and worked in Endicott and all his former co-workers and friends commuted there so the venue is perfect. I will most assuredly NOT be inviting his family to attend. I'm so done with all their judgy crap.

I think a celebration of life for Dave is a great plan! And even better to have it with people who truly knew him and care about you.

 

[DobieLover]

Coffee is ready.
Going in for another round on PT this morning.

I think Bella has developed DCM. I need to get a 24 hr Holter done on her and get her started on the drug cocktail. She will be #4 out of 6 Dobies of mine to die from it.