Calling all veterans and family members. Allies too.

My Grandpa Lt. Col. Ross, Pearl Harbour Survivor,B-24 Pilot, B-17 Navigator/Bombardier, D-day Pilot, flew on Black Thursday, bombed Berlin, and flew over 57 missions earning a Silver Star, and more medals than I can remember at this late hour, was my hero, and the reason I am any kind of decent human being at all. I miss him more each day.

My uncle, Major R. Ross, US Army DMZ Korea Did some flying with Air America. I lost him before I got the whole really cool story, and I wish I was sitting here drinking a beer with him now.

My father USAF Crew Chief U2 1964-1972 He volunteered for 3 tours of duty in country, and he still has jungle rot and weird patches from chemical exposure, and will die before he will claim a dime of VA benefits voluntarily.

I destroyed my left knee at Ft Sill in Oklahoma while still in R.O.T.C. and was booted by the Army at the start of the first time we went to Iraq.
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Going to have my second surgery on it here in the next month or two. Mine was the first generation in our families history in this country, not to serve.
 
Avionics Technician 1st class, USN, here.

Dad - USAF
Step Dad - 27 years, USMC
Brother - USAF
BIL x 2 - USN
FIL - USArmy, D-Day - VE Day.

Veterans, and families of veterans, I salute you all.

All Gave Sme, Some Gave All.
 
Ok, my mom, dad, both grandpa, three uncles on are all vets. One of those grandpas are on the Wall. I also have two uncles that are still working for the US of A as civilians after retiring from the Air Force and the Army. The grandpa that on the Vietnam Memorial Wall is buried at Fort Leavenworth National Cemetery along with my grandma. This is also were I spent my first 12 years of life living. God Bless America!!
 
Becky89* :

my unborn baby's daddy is being shipped out in six days *starts crying* I am scared and worried and Josh means everything to me. I don't want to lose him. I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!! He joined the marines before we met and this is my first time with him leaving. I am almost four months pregnant and I am scared.


I am sorry for rambling. I am just so scared for Josh's safety!!

Becky89* :

*tries to dry tears* you were in the military. WOW I could learn so much from you. Ever since Josh got that calll he won't say anything, when he he's around me he just holds me and the baby and I can see tears in his eyes. I think its because he knows that once he leaves I might lose the baby because of my abusive father and Josh won't be here to protect us.

Welcome Becky,

I can understand what you are going through. It may not make you feel any better but there folks here at BYC that are going through much the same thing you are. You and Josh are in many peoples thoughts and prayers.

It is hard on Josh too. He is being torn between protecting you and the baby and doing his duty.

Hang in there and try to get some help. There is so much you haven't told us and it really is best left unsaid in a public forum such as because of legal ramifications.​
 
Becky89 your PM is full so my two cents...

If you husband is active duty get to your base legal office and family readiness center now! (as in before you read this post
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). They can help you get away from an abuser and find safe housing and assistance while your husband is deployed. If you aren't married I would really suggest a Justice of the Peace ceremony before he leaves so you can receive these benefits. You can always have a church wedding later.

If he is Guard there should still be a family readiness group in the unit, and someone should be able to help you find help.

Sending prayers to You, Josh, and your unborn.
Jennifer (former active duty AF) & wife of an Army NG Soldier
If you can live on a base that would be best, your abuser would have to get through the MPs to get to you, and they don't take kindly to abuse.
 
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My husband did 21 years in the Army. 2 years in Korea, 3 years in Germany and a year in Iraq in 2003. He is retired and I am so glad. Even though I wasn't in the Army it is very hard on the family.
Chris
 

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