My daughter has two pet rabbits that live in her room, that were born here, and have been her special pets for over a year, and
they don't like petting, either. Some rabbits are just like that. When I have someone here looking for a pet, I tell them, "open the cage door, and see which bunny in the litter comes to you. You know
that one is people-friendly. The pretty one back in the corner may come around with time and attention, or it may not - why make it harder than it has to be?" Of course, the one that I had picked as a "keeper" often tries to sell itself to everyone that comes along . . .
People who breed for meat production are usually more concerned about things like larger litters and the ability to raise them to slaughter weight quickly, lots of meat on the carcass, etc; a friendly, outgoing personality is often not even on the list of things they look for. To a certain degree, personality can be inherited. So, if you can't develop a lovey-dovey relationship with a rabbit from a meat herd, that doesn't mean you or the rabbit are doing anything wrong, it's just who she was born to be. I've had even friendly does become touch-me-nots when pregnant, so if she
does have babies on the way, that may be playing into it, too.