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Hey, I am so sorry you are going through this! Gollee, one of the "healthiest" things you can do is to teach your daughter how to raise a few chickens, care for them, etc.
I am not a fan of CPS: they cause problems and ignore abuse. Might I suggest you take an approach "sweet as pie" and give the CPS worker a little "rope" (that you can hang him/her with)? I suggest you kindly ask them (verbally or in writing) to please send you a letter outlining the hazards suggested by your daughter "owning and raising" two chickens. AND, what this worker suggests for a chicken coop, location, etc., etc., etc. The point being to get the worker to really "overstep" with detail and direction that you can use against the worker later with the help of your lawyer friend.
Also, may I suggest you again ask for appropriate "discipline" for your daughter over dumping her laundry basket just "moments/minutes" prior to the unannounced visit. Play up to the CPS worker how much you heard his/her outrage that your daughter would dump the basket and you agree it wasn't "helpful", but as you thought "wrongly" that it wasn't a serious problem, you would like all suggestions advice for disciplining the child in such a way she would never dump her laundry basket again. Reiterate your ignorance at not seeing the "gravity" of the offense and that you are more than willing to recognize it as being as serious as the CPS/"child specialist" indicated. (Please don't miss my sarcasm and that I don't buy the CPS crap for an instant, but the manipulation, control, really needs to be outed and addressed. I would then send a copy of any correspondence you receive from the CPS worker to your governor and congress person to show the over-reach.)
Lastly, Idaho is "green state" when it comes to homeschooling. I strongly recommend you not get entangled with the school psychologist, etc. Consider homeschooling? At least for a while to get the "heat off"? That road can be a very messy one. Are you in a position to relocate, change phone number, etc. to get away from the ex-fiance?
Chickens!! Are popular among homeschooling parents who take much interest in their children's health, well-being and education! There is a private school in Seattle that bought chickens from me for their students! They seem to "get it," too.
So, sorry for the harassment.
BTW, I know of some resources that may be of use if you'd care to PM me.
I am not a fan of CPS: they cause problems and ignore abuse. Might I suggest you take an approach "sweet as pie" and give the CPS worker a little "rope" (that you can hang him/her with)? I suggest you kindly ask them (verbally or in writing) to please send you a letter outlining the hazards suggested by your daughter "owning and raising" two chickens. AND, what this worker suggests for a chicken coop, location, etc., etc., etc. The point being to get the worker to really "overstep" with detail and direction that you can use against the worker later with the help of your lawyer friend.
Also, may I suggest you again ask for appropriate "discipline" for your daughter over dumping her laundry basket just "moments/minutes" prior to the unannounced visit. Play up to the CPS worker how much you heard his/her outrage that your daughter would dump the basket and you agree it wasn't "helpful", but as you thought "wrongly" that it wasn't a serious problem, you would like all suggestions advice for disciplining the child in such a way she would never dump her laundry basket again. Reiterate your ignorance at not seeing the "gravity" of the offense and that you are more than willing to recognize it as being as serious as the CPS/"child specialist" indicated. (Please don't miss my sarcasm and that I don't buy the CPS crap for an instant, but the manipulation, control, really needs to be outed and addressed. I would then send a copy of any correspondence you receive from the CPS worker to your governor and congress person to show the over-reach.)
Lastly, Idaho is "green state" when it comes to homeschooling. I strongly recommend you not get entangled with the school psychologist, etc. Consider homeschooling? At least for a while to get the "heat off"? That road can be a very messy one. Are you in a position to relocate, change phone number, etc. to get away from the ex-fiance?
Chickens!! Are popular among homeschooling parents who take much interest in their children's health, well-being and education! There is a private school in Seattle that bought chickens from me for their students! They seem to "get it," too.
So, sorry for the harassment.
BTW, I know of some resources that may be of use if you'd care to PM me.
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