I'm going to say it depends on your stress... if you have been stressed way much, boy. If you have been blissfully happy, girl. If you were in the private sector without the knowledge that your husband will have a job in a few after military, I'd say boy. But knowing you are going to financially ok, girl. Unless the move is starting to stress you out...then boy. I'm glad Big Red found a home. I would have taken him back but since I'm not NPIP, I can't.