LOL - you may have missed it but in my last post to you, I suggested you might consider going. Last year was the first one in Kansas and I went and got to attend a live processing demo by Joel Salatin which was really helpful to me. I am planning to go this year as well.Has anyone been to the Mother Earth fair in Topeka?
http://www.motherearthnews.com/fair/kansas.aspx#axzz3DPca9pX8
The speakers look pretty good.
As for where to cut, if you feel up the jaw bone until you get to the end of the jaw, that is where you want to cut. Immediately above the jaw bone, in the soft space. Ironically, the best way to avoid hurting them too much is to do it HARD and fast. When I started, I watched a lot of YouTube videos and the takeaway (for me) was "Make sure you don't cut through the windpipe". I was so afraid of doing that, that I cut too gently and wound up having to do multiple to get down to the jugular. However, cutting in the location I suggested (on the side of the neck, above the jawline), there is almost no danger of cutting the windpipe, which runs more down the front/center of the neck. So now I give it all I've got to make sure I only have to cut once. The cut is deep but I welcome the spurt that results as it means I will only have to cut once, which in the end is far less pain and trauma to the bird than multiple shallow cuts.