I personally have a fear of clowns and spiders. You show me a clown holding a spider and I will run for the hills. DH tried to get me to watch a movie called Killer Clowns from Outer Space because he said "its funny". I couldnt get through it and then I had nightmares all night. And even a very tiny spider scares the crap outta me. I cant even kill it because I'm scared I'll miss and it will climb onto me. Phobias may not necessarily make sense to everyone but they are very real to people who have them. Often times we arent even sure how we got them.Phobias aren't something to tease about. Many people have them and it is terrifying to think this thing is going to really hurt or worse kill you. It isn't a test on how much he loves/likes her. It is something people have to get over and it takes time. Sorry this poor boy is so scared. I truly feel for him. Think of what makes you cringe and now think all you have to do is put on your big girl/boy pants. Please you are still scared and this boy is scared out of his mind. We all have fight or flight built into our DNA some much stronger then others.
Edit: that being said please no clown or spider posts
