Disappointed and MAD

I rarely comment on this type thread, but here goes. The problem, IMO, is the husband, not the trampy GF. If you have to lay down rules like he's a child, that doesn't bode well for the marriage. Scheming women will always be around. If a grown married man can't handle that, then he is the problem.
 
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What she said.
If your DH wants to continue to act that way, let him act that way with 50% less of his stuff.
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He finally got home around 1am. I was waiting for him.

We pretty much cleared the air between us. He does remember the promise he made.
He said he did not know she was going to be there. I pointed out that this former friend knew about our agreement, but since he is a proven liar and a user he would not have told him that she was there.

He knows that I do not trust her.

I did something I swore I would not do but I laid it on the line, told him he was now going to have to make a choice. this former friend and his trashy GF or our marriage. Told him to think long and hard about it. He did.
He choice our marriage.
I did not like having to do it, but several things have happened when he goes over to help this guy. they spent the night at the GF's house. I heard nothing until 7am the next morning. I was waiting for the police to call me that night.
Took off for a dance at another town, without me or calling me. He went as the designated driver.
He got his butt chewed for that.
These are things he had never done before.

This GF came into my house and called me a "kitcken b**ch". No I did not slap her I had a butcher knife in my hand at the time.

The last time I went over to help this former friend, I was helping preg check cows. I turned around because one of the guys near me got this funny look on his face and there she was with her arm draped over my DH's shoulder and rubbing herself all over him. He was trying to get away from her.
It was after this we came to the agreement.

Now for the event, it was a plane making an emgergency landing in a cow pasture. My friend went and took pictures to show me and there was the trashy GF in one. Friend did not even know she was in the picture.
 
Hope it all works out for you. I personally dont deal well with ultimatums - especially if my integrity is in question. Both my wife and I have friends that the other cant stand, for various reasons. Neither of us has ever placed those types of restrictions on the other. But you obviously have a different type of relationship and it works for you. I hope it continues to do so.

Glad it all went well.
 
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And besides-- I got to agree with speckledhen. They is always somebody out there.

You see I can handle them schemin floozy hoochie mamma women---- it's easy.

My wife will make me wish I was dead for a long time if'n I was idiot enough to try-it.

Besides that, all joking aside, I know what I got at home, and it's a whole lot more valuable than anything out their.
 
My husband and I made the agreement when we got married that we don’t go out drinking without the other and definitely no late night parties until the morning while the other sits at home…..just causes problems in the marriage. I have seen too many marriages break up over this sort of thing and to me if partying is a priority than you were not ready to be married. I hope everything works out between you and your husband.
 
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What WZ said...
If i felt that i couldnt trust my husband then i would not be married to him. No way...
There will ALWAYS be trampy women around... you need to trust your husband or find a new one..
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just saying...

ETA: I just read your above post...
um.. your husband seems to have disrespected you quite a few times now.... why is it still happening? Something you really need to think long and hard about...
Again... the problem IS with your husband not the tramp.
 
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