He finally got home around 1am. I was waiting for him.
We pretty much cleared the air between us. He does remember the promise he made.
He said he did not know she was going to be there. I pointed out that this former friend knew about our agreement, but since he is a proven liar and a user he would not have told him that she was there.
He knows that I do not trust her.
I did something I swore I would not do but I laid it on the line, told him he was now going to have to make a choice. this former friend and his trashy GF or our marriage. Told him to think long and hard about it. He did.
He choice our marriage.
I did not like having to do it, but several things have happened when he goes over to help this guy. they spent the night at the GF's house. I heard nothing until 7am the next morning. I was waiting for the police to call me that night.
Took off for a dance at another town, without me or calling me. He went as the designated driver.
He got his butt chewed for that.
These are things he had never done before.
This GF came into my house and called me a "kitcken b**ch". No I did not slap her I had a butcher knife in my hand at the time.
The last time I went over to help this former friend, I was helping preg check cows. I turned around because one of the guys near me got this funny look on his face and there she was with her arm draped over my DH's shoulder and rubbing herself all over him. He was trying to get away from her.
It was after this we came to the agreement.
Now for the event, it was a plane making an emgergency landing in a cow pasture. My friend went and took pictures to show me and there was the trashy GF in one. Friend did not even know she was in the picture.