Disappointed and MAD

[redhen]

Also.. i was thinking..
And i may be wrong here..but..
If your DH just gave up his friend so easily like that....
I have a VERY strong suspicion that he DOES have guilt about something that happend between them......
Just MY opinion... take it for what its worth... cause my mind is warped.

 

[Me & My Peeps]

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Wow, thats some scary stuff right there..................the kind of stuff movies are made of!!

The fact that you KNOW - to the day/hour...............when the crime (supposed) occurred...................

 

[debilorrah]

I've only read half the posts and I can tell you this much. I would march right over to the skanky little body rubber, and tell her straight up - stay away from the man or she will have to deal with ME. Ain't none of you ever seen me mad before. It is not the man's issue - it is the skank. She would find herself eatin horse dung the next time she tried anything around Ken, that is for SURE.

 

[herfrds]

Like I said the friend that sent the picture had no idea the tramp was in it until I called her.
Second I will never forget the day my best friend died. So yes I know how long it has been.

Yes the tramp has been told by me to stay away from my hubby. Also the former friend was told his GF is not welcome here or anywhere around us. He doesn't care what she does. the tramp ran his oldest daughter out of the house, she moved in with friends.

I don't know if he has given up this friendship yet fully, but hubby knows what is at stake right now, his family.

 

[tazcat70]

Herfrds- Just be cautious and aware of what is going on. I am not saying that your DH has done anything or even plans on doing anything. He may not have even realized that she was being overly friendly until you pointed it out. However, that kind of attention can be very flattering and can lead down a path that was not intended to be taken.

 

[FireTigeris]

Me & My Peeps :

Hope it all works out for you. I personally dont deal well with ultimatums - especially if my integrity is in question. Both my wife and I have friends that the other cant stand, for various reasons. Neither of us has ever placed those types of restrictions on the other. But you obviously have a different type of relationship and it works for you. I hope it continues to do so.

Glad it all went well.

TRUTH

If I ever didn't trust someone around my hubbie I would go with him, make it clear I would ALWAYS be with him at PITA's house and then be borderline obnoxious... so the invites start dropping off...

We each has one friend the other can't stand- recently his friend went off the deep end into some cult... mine is still around ...and mostly sane...

My hubbie wouldn't leave the teeth in someone that ever called me a name... friend or former friend ...

Turst is the corrnerstone of marrage, - a good foundation
love is the roof -sheltering you
Attraction (lust) is just the paint. - it can be changed by reading a good book or seeing a 'movie'​

 

[cassie]

I wouldn't have said anything to hubby about GF. He's a big boy and can take care of himself. If the moves are unwelcome he can handle it. If they are not, you have a bigger problem. If he is the kind that is likely to stray there is nothing you can do about it. I told my husband before we were married that if I ever caught him cheating, I was tying a big bow around his neck and giving him to her to keep. I meant it too.

 

[herfrds]

I don't think he talked to GM yet. I know she wants to have words with him.

A couple that are really close family friends are talking to him. I know they are pointing out a few facts concering this tramp. Unforunately they had a similar talk with him before.
That night we cleared the air he kept trying to change the subject and I kept telling him that that is not what we were talking about.

I used to tolerate this former friend coming over to help my hubby until he brought her over without my knowledge. I was doing a 3 day training course and found out from my kids that she was here.
The last time she was here and everybody was outside, she went into our house and snooped through our bedroom. I know because our bedroom door was closed and it is hard to open unless you push on it super hard. It was partly open when I went inside after she left.
I checked and nothing was missing.
He is not welcome here.

I don't know anymore if I trust my hubby or not. It has been depressing thinking about this and wondering what I will have to do.
You would think with everything we have been through in our almost 15 years of marriage he would at least be aware of those tramps standing on the sideline waiting for him to stumble.

I'm going to think more on this.

 

[SillyChicken]

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Hopefully your talk helped and he takes you seriously.......... I bolded what I see is the issue, it's not the womans fault, he broke the agreement they had.. he did not come home when she showed up as he agreed to... not only that, he was late coming home. I never get mad at "the other woman" ... it's the husbands decisions and behavior that allows the "situations" to take place. She is not breaking a vow or promise to the wife........HE is!

Hope it works out for you both.