I will refrain from saying anything else than this, as I am not a trainer, and cannot/should not give training advice of this kind to other people. What everyone does for each of their dogs will differ. I just think the least we can do is look at what science tells us is OK and what is not. I also saw some things about respect. To me when people say things like "your dog should respect you because you are on top" just reminds me of the whole "you're your dog's alpha" which we know is complete bull poop