(ex)-boyfriend problems, advice needed

[redhen]

I would miss what I know now, and how I have matured, the lessons I have learned, but I would so love to be able to leap to the car to grab the camera and not grunt getting up off the grass.  I have always been chunky, it's age that has me stuck to the floor.

Lol,.. i hear ya!

 

[debilorrah]

Lol,.. i hear ya!

There is a lot about getting older that is good, and a lot more that totally sucks. I keep finding grey hairs that are full length and my brain says "how'd I miss THAT one" over and over. Time to get the hair dye back out again.

 

[redhen]

There is a lot about getting older that is good, and a lot more that totally sucks.  I keep finding grey hairs that are full length and my brain says "how'd I miss THAT one" over and over.  Time to get the hair dye back out again. 

Yep.. i had to break down and start dying mine too a few months ago.. *sobs*
I'm lucky though.. i found a color that *almost* matches my natural hair color.. Soo.. after a few washes you cant tell that its dyed at all.
There is NOTHING worse than a redhead with that fake looking dyed red hair..
I swore i'd never do it... but its actually working out..

 

[debilorrah]

Yep.. i had to break down and start dying mine too a few months ago.. *sobs*
I'm lucky though.. i found a color that *almost* matches my natural hair color.. Soo.. after a few washes you cant tell that its dyed at all.
There is NOTHING worse than a redhead with that fake looking dyed red hair..

I swore i'd never do it... but its actually working out..

It's been while since I did mine, and I asked Robert not long ago what color my hair was and he said "Gold". I love that kid.

 

[texas75563]

Took a bit to read all that! Sorry about your pain 77horses! Unfortunately heartbreak is all part up growing up. Your ex wasn't mr right. Atleast not right now anyway. He could of made the time if he really loved you. Don't blame yourself for everything. Yep, he has moved on. That is what you need to do too. Looks like you were making progress in that direction.

The right guy will come along. It could be tomorrow or several years. There may be a few more guys you think is mr right and more heart heart ache before the real MR Right comes along.

Concentrate on the positive things: family, friends, school, your chickens, church and its youth activities.

 

[jamesbwood]

I don't miss it - at least not most of it. The mind numbing day care they call high school in Florida, the bullies, the zits, the just trying to fit in, the girls you like but are to scarred to talk to and the ones that are just friends that are interested, and mostly, not being the master of your own fate. Things got much better with age. University was good, grad school and beyond, great.

Your mileage may vary. Your hair may turn grey, but at least you are the captain of your own fate and can dye it what ever color you want.

James

 

[sourland]

James, but what about those of us who no longer have hair?

Old redhen has gray hair, old redhen has gray hair, old redhen has gray hair, old redhen -----------------------------

 

[CaptGus]

Oh, if I could go back to high school, I wouldn't cull any of the "hens", if you catch my drift.

 

[jamesbwood]

Wigs!

 

[redhen]

James, but what about those of us who no longer have hair? 


Old redhen has gray hair, old redhen has gray hair, old redhen has gray hair, old redhen -----------------------------    

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