Yeah, I pretty much completely withdrew from liking him after I asked why he drinks and he said "because it's fun, you should try it sometime"...hah, no thanks.
Lets hope there's such a guy out there. I feel like the closest I came to finding a guy my age who was actually mature and not into bad things and who I once thought was perfect for me was my ex. In fact I still think we were perfect for each other. I guess it's just not the time right now though because it obviously didn't work out. Who knows if I'll ever find a great guy like that again. :/
gg706: it's all good. I know you were only trying to help.
Yes, and THATS what hurting you so badly right now..
I get it... your ex seemed to be everything that you were looking for... a good match for you..
Its VERY hard to let that go..
But i swear.. i promise,.. you WILL find the right person for you someday..
Just DONT settle for less! I see it ALL the time in friends and family.. they spend several miserable , wasted years thinking that the guy will "change".. that it will "get better"..
Its truly a sad thing to do to yourself..