I am going next Friday for my first appointment! They want to see if I conceived before or after my IUD was removed. Then I'll know my due date

It all still seems so surreal to me. Never thought we would be having a third kid! Also trying to figure out when to tell the family, previously we told them right away, but there is so much going on with the family right now, not sure if we should. Both my father and grandmother are in the hospital recouping from surgeries, falls, and a near death moment. We are hoping they will both be home for Thanksgiving so wondering if we should wait till then. But I really want to tell my mom, but she has been back and forth to the hospital visiting my dad, so I haven't seen her in a while. And I really want to tell her in person, not over the phone.