Thank you everyone for your advice. I've heard so much about Food, Inc that I've been afraid to watch it myself. LOL I stopped eating veal 30 years ago when I found out what they did to veal calves to keep their meat white. I was only 17 at the time and I was just sickened by what I saw.
I think his problem is that he's afraid that he'll get attached to them. We live in a farming community in Northeast TN. I'm the city girl, he's the southerner. But he never owned farm animals.
What I've been doing with extra hens & roos is setting up poorer families in my community with chickens so that they could have eggs and meat. I've threatened many a roo with the stew pot if they threaten to flog me. I'm serious but my husband thinks I'm kidding.
I think this evening, once our grandson goes to bed, we're going to sit down and really discuss this. We already have a good sized garden, we are planting fruit and nut trees this year. (Nut trees because we have parrots and the price of nuts are astronomical) I want to learn how to can, and we already dehydrate and freeze fruits and veggies. I think this is one more way of becoming self sufficient.
Thanks again everyone. I really see that home grown Thanksgiving turkey in our future!
Laurie