French frogs

Discussion in 'Random Ramblings' started by scflock, Nov 9, 2015.

  1. Brat Flock

    Brat Flock Chillin' With My Peeps

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    Happy you could say this out loud. I hope it helps lighten that burden. Guilt, even guilt not rooted in reality, haunts us all to one degree or another. I have my own demons but it's a powerful moment when you feel safe enough to share, thanks Phil, we are here for you!
     
  2. sourland

    sourland Broody Magician Premium Member

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    The deer may have been coming to your garden or it may just have been crossing the road. There is no responsibility on your part in either scenario. You can let that one go. [​IMG]
     
  3. LittleLakePhil

    LittleLakePhil True BYC Addict

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    I honestly am not looking for anything....it is one of those..if only things...you know if only I had put a fence around my garden...I don't feel responsible...just that thought always bothered me.Partly because his brother Phil is one of my best friends and I worked for him since 1992..and I could never say anything to him. So I just took this moment too blurt it out...thank you all...enough bummer stuff. Heck I'm going to be a grandpa again tomorrow!!!!
     
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  5. LittleLakePhil

    LittleLakePhil True BYC Addict

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    You guys all rock by the way...
     
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    dan26552 True BYC Addict

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    [​IMG] I'm sure you do too
     
  8. WalnutHill

    WalnutHill Overrun With Chickens Premium Member

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    That deer could have crossed half a mile up or down, 50 feet up or down, or right there...a deer is a wild creature and does what its nature tells it to do. Fate played her cards, but you were in no way a contributing factor. Rest easy on that point, if nothing else.
     
  9. LittleLakePhil

    LittleLakePhil True BYC Addict

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    Honestly I'm okay...it's really just the fact I could never tell anyone that for a long time that bothered me. And now I have...I really never meant for that to go so depressing. But unfortunately accidents can hit home.
    And so can the lasting effects.
     
  10. OrganicFarmWife

    OrganicFarmWife Overrun With Chickens

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    Yes they can. but everyone is right, not your fault, do not go down that road. I am glad you could get it off your chest, sometimes people need to hear, it isn't your fault.
     

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