geesh

[hdowden]

why must people get so defisive for misreading a post when you are butt tired and commenting. i have people misread some my post and i dont get deffinsive just make it clearer and explain what i was talking about even got pm's about some of my questions and i still dont get upset. my goodness why does everything have to turn into you are a rude person and all when its a simple missreading and understanding.

 

[Baymule]

People are quick to take offense sometimes. Then there is that thing of no voice inflections in the printed words.........

 

[hdowden]

still people dont have to call someone rude because of it

 

[chickmashnoon]

That sucks. I don't know what issues you have had to deal with, but I know proper spelling and syntax help out with making sure you are understood correctly and could save you from some of the problems you are having. Most bad spelling and missing prefixes people figure out, but when you have many right next to each other . . . .Well, let's just say I could find it confusing too.

But your misunderstandings could be of a completely different nature, so if spelling has nothing to do with it, sorry! Happy Hollidays anyway

 

[Baymule]

Feel blessed that you have patience with such people instead of returning their behavior back to them. Then you can come here to vent

It is a measure of your character that you rise above such rudeness and behave with decorum and class. (Pat yourself on the back for being such a nice person)

 

[hdowden]

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lol i have never been that great with spelling(has always been a weak part for me for some reason dont know why)

and i get worse the more tired i am

 

[hdowden]

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thank you but it does frustrate me a bit lol but who would it not? patience is a vertue that is learned and not taught....hope my kids can learn that

 

[hdowden]

everyone around here tells me that they will tell me anything and come to me if they need to talk. i try to be a nice and helpfull person but sometimes it turns and bites me in the butt grrrrr i sometimes think i have to much patiance with people....

 

[Mattemma]

I think it is very nice of you to take the time to explain yourself to someone that misreads your post instead of telling them to bug off.

Unfortunately it is very easy for people to say things on public forums that are intentionally hurtful,and probably some people are just primed to look for something mean directed at them in every post.

As time goes on people will see from your postings that your intent is not harmful.

 

[twentynine]

Lots of Mommie button pushers too!