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Good to know I'm not the only one that gives animals long names (unless that's her AKC name)!Here's from the week she came home:
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Here's from a couple of weeks ago:
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Here's from a couple of days ago:
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I can't remember if I said it or not, but her full official name is 4Round's Copper Corazón of Chicken Hill.
Wish I had an answer.I was too exhausted to write earlier, but Copper tried to aggressively attack mom today. I'm not sure if it was a fear reaction or resource guarding. Mom had gone to harvest some kudzu to make a basket. Copper lost her mind, barking, growling, and teeth bared intimidating when Mom came back with an armload of it. I grabbed her collar before she hurt Mom.
I have noticed in the past that Copper does not like people who are not people shaped. When the lawn guy is here, she is afraid of him until he takes off all his protective gear, then they're best buds. As soon as Mom put down the kudzu and talked to her, she was scared of it, but ok with Mom again after the adrenaline wore off in a few seconds. We reassured her it was not a dog eating kudzu demon, and then played with her using the kudzu. By the end of the session she was happily demolishing the discarded leaves and vines.
I need to avoid that first reaction though. When she's big, she will be very, very dangerous instead of just somewhat dangerous.
I just feel like this is all too much. Does everyone go through this or do I have a difficult dog?
That's a fairly typical protection breed puppy reaction. They are bred to notice and respond to unusual things. To her, it looked scary and possibly dangerous, maybe the kudzu was attacking your mom, and yet she faced it head on instead of running away.I was too exhausted to write earlier, but Copper tried to aggressively attack mom today. I'm not sure if it was a fear reaction or resource guarding. Mom had gone to harvest some kudzu to make a basket. Copper lost her mind, barking, growling, and teeth bared intimidating when Mom came back with an armload of it. I grabbed her collar before she hurt Mom.
I have noticed in the past that Copper does not like people who are not people shaped. When the lawn guy is here, she is afraid of him until he takes off all his protective gear, then they're best buds. As soon as Mom put down the kudzu and talked to her, she was scared of it, but ok with Mom again after the adrenaline wore off in a few seconds. We reassured her it was not a dog eating kudzu demon, and then played with her using the kudzu. By the end of the session she was happily demolishing the discarded leaves and vines.
I need to avoid that first reaction though. When she's big, she will be very, very dangerous instead of just somewhat dangerous.
I just feel like this is all too much. Does everyone go through this or do I have a difficult dog?
That's what protective dogs do when they see something that does not look right in their eyes. She made a judgement call and decided your mom looked like a threat with all that kudzu. When your mom spoke up and let he know it was her how did your pup react? My spouse wears black coveralls and a baseball cap all the time and every now and then when he wears regular pants and has his hair combed our guardian dog will raise cane until he lets her know it's him.I was too exhausted to write earlier, but Copper tried to aggressively attack mom today. I'm not sure if it was a fear reaction or resource guarding. Mom had gone to harvest some kudzu to make a basket. Copper lost her mind, barking, growling, and teeth bared intimidating when Mom came back with an armload of it. I grabbed her collar before she hurt Mom.
I have noticed in the past that Copper does not like people who are not people shaped. When the lawn guy is here, she is afraid of him until he takes off all his protective gear, then they're best buds. As soon as Mom put down the kudzu and talked to her, she was scared of it, but ok with Mom again after the adrenaline wore off in a few seconds. We reassured her it was not a dog eating kudzu demon, and then played with her using the kudzu. By the end of the session she was happily demolishing the discarded leaves and vines.
I need to avoid that first reaction though. When she's big, she will be very, very dangerous instead of just somewhat dangerous.
I just feel like this is all too much. Does everyone go through this or do I have a difficult dog?
That's a fairly typical protection breed puppy reaction. They are bred to notice and respond to unusual things. To her, it looked scary and possibly dangerous, maybe the kudzu was attacking your mom, and yet she faced it head on instead of running away.
But I'm beginning to think that for you and your situation, she's just way too much dog. She's just a little pup now and although you're trying your heart out, you're still struggling to deal with her at times. And you're right, most likely it's going to get even harder over this first year before it gets better. That's just the nature of the beast.
Sorry to say, but IMO you'd probably be better off returning her to the breeder or rehoming her, and if you still want a dog, getting a much more low key type of puppy.
As long as she chilled out when she knew who she was dealing with then that's normal behavior.I'm not ready to give up yet, even though she ripped a hole in my dress this morning because she wanted attention and to play tug of war. The advice I've read says "ignore them if they jump and bite and they will learn it's not right thing to do to get attention." Hard to do when she's literally stripping me naked and destroying my clothing. I put her in timeout immediately after, and she calmed down.
But, as I said, way upthread, we're learning together she and I. I think my instincts are good, and her instincts are good, and we'll eventually get sorted out. She's not a bad dog at all, she's just, as you've noted, a hard dog (for me).
I've never approached life on easy mode, but I am going to take her and I to a puppy class. I may be causing some of this issue and if a trainer observes me and her together, they might be able to teach me some better habits or interaction techniques. After the incident yesterday, I promised I'd give us both one year to sort ourselves out, barring injurious aggression I can't control.
@MrFluffyandGirls - When mom tried to tell her it was ok while holding the kudzu, she was having none of it. When Mom put the kudzu down, everything changed nearly in an instant. She was scared of it, but knew mom was mom.