You said you were thinking about getting goats anyway. They are already yours. I would feel a little sorry for her if she is in dire straights exept for the fact that she never even came to check on them. If they were my goats and I had no place to keep them, I would still keep in contact with you. Busy? I don't think so! Evidentally not too busy to be on the computer and post on FB! If you have time for that, you have time to come check on your animals. Where are her priorities? Don't feel badly about what you are doing. You have been doing a good job taking care of them and now you should enjoy them!