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You got it in one. Your daughter is lucky to have you around to remind her. And her neighbors are lucky!
We homeschool also - and I actually wonder if that is a part of this woman's beef. She hasn't said anything about it, but she moved into the neighborhood a couple years before us, when it was almost solely the older folks who moved in as young families when the subdivision was being built... 45 years ago. In the last 6-8 years (we have been here ~6, she was sweet for the first 4... pre-chickens) there has been a massive generational turnover and the neighborhood is filled with kids. Great for our kids, but I can see how it could be upsetting to someone who thought she was moving into a quiet area. Kids are noisy (far more than chickens!) and messy (despite parents' best efforts... though I must admit it didn't seem like a big deal to leave their toys around our backyard!). Our kids are home all day long, on top of that - although I make every effort to be quieter during "school hours" and my kids are hands-down the most polite in the neighborhood (they know not to hold down a doorbell forever, always greet adults with a smile, etc.)... the other kids are great, but I am aware that we have to hold a higher standard in order to keep the neighbors friendly.
I think this woman would like to be the "Nice Old Lady" but doesn't *really* like kids.
It's a great neighborhood in many ways... but I am so ready to be done with neighbors. After the CPS visit I was afraid to let the kids play out front for close to a year! And it turns out it was the backyard I needed to be paranoid over...
Sigh.
Bless you for being a good grandma to your daughter's neighborhood. They may never know it, but please accept my thanks on their behalf. She sounds like a nice person... we all get a little silly and it's a question of whether we, or someone near us, can bring us back before we act. (That's usually my husband's role in our family... but he was peeved this time... it's been interesting...)
Kerridwen
My daughter and wonderful son in-law that have my four grand children are going to be getting some of my chickens after I brood them. My husband and I have made them a chicken tractor that has a chicken yard that they can attach to it, so they can move it around their yard. They can have farm animals but they live on a country hwy that is quite busy, so she does not want to take the chance of letting them free-range. They had chickens last year that I had given them but she had just had my youngest grandson on Memorial Day and so last summer was the wrong time to try and teach the kids responsibility on taking care of chickens. So I took them back and they will be getting other young ones in about six weeks.
I agree with showme69 and document. You are doing nothing wrong and if it is because of your children - you are doing nothing wrong there either. I'm sure you know that you do not have to allow CPS or anyone in your home.
"Our kids are home all day long, on top of that - although I make every effort to be quieter during "school hours" and my kids are hands-down the most polite in the neighborhood.." I TOTALLY KNOW THIS TO BE TRUE because of how respectful my grand children are to everyone.